What can a man do on Valentine’s Day that’s special and unexpected for his lady? This is where your own imagination comes into play.
You could take her to dinner and then take her to her favorite clothing store and let her pick out the dress of her dreams that she likes. You could present her with a preplanned cruise to somewhere she has always wanted to see. The idea is that you do all the planning and take care of all the details in advance. You could find out which jeweler she frequent to day dream about things she would like to have and you can get to know the proprietor and have them keep a list of the things she looks longingly at during the year. Then you come back to go over the list and buy some or all the items for her. Then you could give them to her all at once on Valentine’s Day or space them out over a few days before, on and after the special day. Perhaps you could place one or more items on her pillow each morning and each night before, on or after Valentine’s Day.
The messages we have previously discussed in my old post are the ones you are communicating. She will smile and be thrilled at your actions.
I know that this might be a huge departure from your usual rush-out-on-valentine’s-day-to-find-something plan. This takes time. It takes thoughts. This sort of gift-giving is not last minute and hurried.
This is slow, and sweet, and wonderful. You’ll be amazed at her reaction.
Pls continue with me in the next post on what a lady can do to make that day special.